If you want to cheat, don’t lie about it.

Another day, another Radio Five Live debate after a social scientist writes that affairs are good for marriages. Is she right? Should we adopt a more ‘French’ approach?  I think that a debate on monogamy is long overdue. Like our ancestors the bonobos, monogamy is not the most natural state for humans. I believe that open marriages and ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policies are fine…if both people are on the same page. Read more

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