A detective’s ultimate responsibility is to find, document, and present the ‘true facts’ of the case. Don’t bend your case to fit your theories of what ‘should’ happen.The day I started applying my private investigator manual to my love life, everything changed. How many times have you watched CSI and seen a great cop get burned because he decides early on that a suspect is ‘his guy’? His focus on catching his man makes him blind to the evidence presented later. Read more
Becoming a private investigator has made me realize that some of my past relationships were seriously dysfunctional. The felons I’m hunting down are a lot easier to find than some of my exes! *The blacked-out men in this photo are for illustration purposes only!
Another day, another Radio Five Live debate after a social scientist writes that affairs are good for marriages. Is she right? Should we adopt a more ‘French’ approach? I think that a debate on monogamy is long overdue. Like our ancestors the bonobos, monogamy is not the most natural state for humans. I believe that open marriages and ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policies are fine…if both people are on the same page. Read more
In the same way that former thieves are the best people to ask about the best locks to buy for your home, I can tell you how to stay out of dark alleys with shady characters. I used to have most of them on speed dial!
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