Before you start blaming your partner for your relationship problems, ask yourself: Have you ever driven past his/her house or shown up unannounced? Do you talk about him/her to anyone who will listen, and make every conversation about them (“Pasta? James’s family is from Italy…”) Have you ever cracked your partner’s phone, email, Twitter or Facebook passwords and virtually stalked them?
Do you need to be in constant contact with your partner, and get nervous when they need time apart?
Have you ever driven a car cross-country, wearing diapers so that you wouldn’t have to take potty breaks to eliminate a love rival?
If any of these apply to you, you need to step back and get help instead of blaming the other person. Remember, if you can’t see the crazy, you may be the crazy!